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What Do You Deserve? And Do You Really Want to Deserve Anything?

Article •  5 - 8 minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Article
5 - 8 minutes

We can trick ourselves into keeping the status quo, feeling unworthy, and blocking access to critical awareness necessary that allows for new creative solutions to emerge -- when we think in terms of who has "earned" or “deserved” what.


Expressing Vulnerable Honesty While Fearful

Audio •  30 minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
30 minutes

What do you do when you are thinking that it's not "emotionally safe" to speak honestly?  Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she explores this topic with a workshop participant.


Overcoming Unworthiness to Express Vulnerable Honesty

Audio •  9 minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
9 minutes

Does unworthiness keep you from expressing vulnerably and honestly? Afraid of being "found out?" Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she explores this topic with a workshop participant to discern stories from needs, recognize the tension between self-acceptance and personal development and sit with the discomfort of self-acceptance.


Taking 100% Responsibility for Every Relationship (4 Session Course)

Audio •  4 - 6 hours
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
4 - 6 hours

Taking 100% Responsibility offers a powerful antidote to the all-too-common dynamic of blaming that leaves you in the victim position and unable to have the relationship you want. Miki invites you to assume a stance of leadership while holding full care for both parties’ needs. No longer will you need to wait for the other person to change, nor will you need to give up your needs to reach harmony.


Embracing Leadership within Yourself (4 Session Course)

Audio •  4 - 6 hours
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
4 - 6 hours

Join Miki as she covers a lot of territory, defining leadership, helping us lead when we're not in the leadership chair, showing us how to have power in every moment and engage our fear instead of let it run us. Get some powerful leadership tools you can put to use today.


Your Resonant Self (Book, Chapter 2)

Article •  10 - 15 minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Article
10 - 15 minutes

Read Chapter 2, Staying in Emotional Balance: Healthy Self-Regulation from Sarah Peyton’s book, Your Resonant Self.


Taking 100% Responsibility for Every Relationship

Audio •  44 minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
44 minutes

Taking 100% Responsibility offers a powerful antidote to the all-too-common dynamic of blaming that leaves you in the victim position and unable to have the relationship you want. Miki invites you to assume a stance of leadership while holding full care for both parties’ needs. No longer will you need to wait for the other person to change, nor will you need to give up your needs to reach harmony.


Embracing Leadership within Yourself

Audio •  56 minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
56 minutes

Join Miki as she covers a lot of territory, defining leadership, helping us lead when we're not in the leadership chair, showing us how to have power in every moment and engage our fear instead of let it run us. Get some powerful leadership tools you can put to use today.


NVC Life Hacks 10: Winter Blues

Video •  3 minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Video
3 minutes

Quite a few of us find the darker winter months emotionally tricky. If you're one of those sorts of people, here are three NVC-oriented tips to help you through to spring!