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Some arguments stay stuck because each person thinks it's about the content of the argument, rather than the needs each person is attempting to protect. When the needs get attached to the strategies a "no way out" scenario gets created. Instead, fully step into one another's worlds and connect to the feelings and needs behind the strategy each party is putting forth. Read on for six elements to creating empathic connection.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 3-5 minutes
  • Production Date 8/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Trainer Tip: We all see through our own filters. To disentangle what we hear from some is really saying, check using understanding requests at the level of detail you need. Course correct along the way. In a charged situation this can be critical to bringing in clarity, being heard and resolving differences amicably.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2005
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips
When you or anyone is upset, what could underneath it all?  There may be more than is immediately visible.  This article invites us to explore what it looks like to inquire deeper, take self-responsibility, examine our assumptions, attachments, interpretations, and "certainties" that could be hidden behind the needs that are aching to be attended to...

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 7-10 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2017
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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This telecourse recording provides an experience with the language, skills and consciousness of NVC applied to mediating all types of conflict whether you are one of the people in conflict or you are supporting others in conflict.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 11 - 14 hours
  • Production Date 02/2011
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Do you find yourself giving in with growing resentment? Do you avoid conflict and explode later without apparent reason?  Miki Kashtan, a world-renowned CNVC Certified Trainer, invites you to listen to this two-session telecourse recording to re-imagine and fine tune your skills at dealing with disagreements and negotiations.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 02:35 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 07/2011
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Listen to this introductory 4-session Mediate Your Life telecourse recording to change your response to conflict and change your life.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 05:12 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 02/26/2013
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 2
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CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan helps a man whose ex-spouse reacted strongly to his attempt at empathizing with her. Miki shows us how it’s possible to hide behind our empathic expression, creating less rather than more connection. She suggests instead that we be vulnerably authentic.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:05 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 06/07/2011
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan shares how Marshall Rosenberg helped her see how unacknowledged fear can be misinterpreted as aggression and offers an elegant and simple strategy for changing this dynamic.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:02 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 06/07/2011
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Learn tools to help you reconnect and repair your relationship with your adult children. Whether the issues are estrangement, lack of trust, conflict, dependence, miscommunication or any other challenge that impacts you with your grown sons and daughters, your heart will find comfort and ease through this course.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:51 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 09/26/2013
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Audio
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan talks with radio show host Hollis Polk about strategies for communicating with family members whose political views oppose our own.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:17 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 03/2011
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Audio
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