Resolving Conflict in Congregations
Audio
10 minutes
02/11/2012
LoraKim explores what gets in the way of seeing the inherent worth and dignity of others when there is conflict in congregations. The strategies LoraKim offers can be applied to any spiritual community.
Tips for the Road Series: Tip 6. Ask to Understand
Tips for the Road Series: Tip 6. Ask to Understand
Tips for the Road Series: Tip 6. Ask to Understand
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
01/2016
Who does not want to be understood? In Tip #6, Eric shows you how to deepen connection and trust by checking your understanding with the person you are conversing with.
When Someone's Anger Stimulates Fear for My Physical Safety
When Someone's Anger Stimulates Fear for My Physical Safety
When Someone's Anger Stimulates Fear for My Physical Safety
Audio
7 minutes
02/03/2009
CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan tells us to look to our inner dialogue and the other's needs when we're feeling fear of physical violence that's been stimlated by someone's anger.
How Privilege / Lack of Privilege Affects Men, Fishbowl Discussion
How Privilege / Lack of Privilege Affects Men, Fishbowl Discussion
How Privilege / Lack of Privilege Affects Men, Fishbowl Discussion
Video
1 hour, 19 minutes
05/06/2017
Becoming a Change Agent Everywhere You Go (4 Session Course)
Becoming a Change Agent Everywhere You Go (4 Session Course)
Becoming a Change Agent Everywhere You Go (4 Session Course)
Audio
6 - 8 hours
10/7/2015
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed – or locked into passivity? This course offers you a way out. Learn to change the way you perceive leadership, and you’ll help yourself respond more powerfully and proactively every day of your life – wherever you are – and whomever you’re with!
Why Do I Feel Depressed?
Article
7 - 11 minutes
04/2018
When does identifying our or others' needs become a coping mechanism that hides the real problems that go unaddressed, and thereby reinforcing problems? This article zooms out to take a look at how dealing with our needs in the absence of the larger picture can inadvertertly support unhealthy ways of operating, rather than become a healthy solution. It asks us to see what could be hidden -- both on the personal and societal levels.
Increasing Your Capacity to Feel
Article
4 - 6 minutes
01/2018
What's really going on underneath the surface when we bring or encounter blame, judgements, pain -- and thereby the inability to empathize, be present, attuned, or responsive? Why does this happen even if one or more people in a relationship dynamic is working hard at bringing in an NVC response? This article addresses these and more questions from the perspective of how our brains are affected in our relationships.
From Obedience and Shame to Freedom and Belonging: Transforming Patriarchal Paradigms of Child-Rearing in the Age of Global Warming
From Obedience and Shame to Freedom and Belonging: Transforming Patriarchal Paradigms of Child-Rearing in the Age of Global Warming
From Obedience and Shame to Freedom and Belonging: Transforming Patriarchal Paradigms of Child-Rearing in the Age of Global Warming
Article
33 pages
6/2017
What will it take to reclaim our fundamental relatedness with all things alive, surrender our attempts to control nature, and find a way of living that averts or mitigates the worst possible catastrophes awaiting us while it's still possible?
Greeting the Holidays with an Open, Joyful Heart
Audio
1 hour, 24 minutes
12/19/2013
Please join us as we take a look at what disrupts our joy during the holidays… and discuss the delicious possibilities that abound when we declare our intention to "Greet the Holidays with an Open, Joyful Heart."
Workplace Series: When Purpose Trumps Connection
Audio
6 minutes
10/2008
In most business environments, purpose holds a higher priority than connection. Listen to Miki discuss the strategy of using minimum connection to remain true to the purpose at hand, and how the purpose of empathy may differ in the workplace.