Effectiveness of the NVC Process in Coping with Violence and Pain
Effectiveness of the NVC Process in Coping with Violence and Pain
Effectiveness of the NVC Process in Coping with Violence and Pain
Audio
6 minutes
02/2007
Ask the Trainer: An NVC Academy member from Bosnia asks: "Is the NVC process truly effective in places where so much violence has occurred and people's pain is very deep?"
I Want to Leave When Facing Anger
Video
4 minutes
12/12/21
Receiving anger from another can be a reactive trigger for many of us. In this brief segment, Arnina provides us a strategy for staying in the conversation instead of physically leaving.
Protective Vs. Punitive Use Of Force
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
11/23/2022
Trainer Tip: Punitive use of force stems from a belief that people behave in certain ways because they're bad, and that they need to be punished to mend their ways. One way to punish is to judge them. In contrast, protective use of force stems from a desire to prevent injury or injustice. It focuses on protecting people’s rights and well-being, not judging their behavior.
A Strong Man: A Children’s Story
Audio
6 minutes
2010
Listen to this captivating story by Leo Sofer. A strong blacksmith comes to the aid of a little girl when she needs protecting. But can he protect her from the harsh words she speaks to herself inside her head?
Can NVC Be Learned Without Learning Observation, Feeling, Need and Request?
Can NVC Be Learned Without Learning Observation, Feeling, Need and Request?
Can NVC Be Learned Without Learning Observation, Feeling, Need and Request?
Audio
44 minutes
03/2012
In this enlightening Trainer Conversation, three veteran CNVC Certified Trainers discuss whether NVC can be learned without first learning Observations, Feelings, Needs, Requests (OFNR). The conversation naturally meanders as the trainers grapple with the question, eventually covering a wide-range of topics including the spirituality and true essence of NVC.
Conflict Improv: She Talks Too Much!
Video
8 minutes
2011
In this edition of Conflict Improv, CNVC Certified Trainer Christine King navigates the challenging practice of expressing honesty when that expression might easily be heard as criticism.
Moving From Blame to Self-Responsibility
Article
2 - 5 minutes
2007
Often when someone else does something we don't like, it's easy to blame the other person. After all, we have all been trained to focus on fault when needs are not met. What can we do to shift that pattern?
Protective Use of Force with Children
Trainer Tip
9 minutes
Circa 2007
Ask the Trainer: Can you help me connect with my needs behind the protective use of force I use with my children?
Overcoming Unworthiness to Express Vulnerable Honesty
Overcoming Unworthiness to Express Vulnerable Honesty
Overcoming Unworthiness to Express Vulnerable Honesty
Audio
9 minutes
02/03/2009
Does unworthiness keep you from expressing vulnerably and honestly? Afraid of being "found out?" Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she explores this topic with a workshop participant to discern stories from needs, recognize the tension between self-acceptance and personal development and sit with the discomfort of self-acceptance.
Embracing Empathy: In-depth Practice for Getting Empathy into your Bones (4 Session Course)
Embracing Empathy: In-depth Practice for Getting Empathy into your Bones (4 Session Course)
Embracing Empathy: In-depth Practice for Getting Empathy into your Bones (4 Session Course)
Audio
4 - 6 hours
11/03/2009
This telecourse recording is for anyone wanting to integrate empathy into his/her life in a more natural, authentic way.